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Memory that must not reopen a wound

Project N.E.K.O.

A companion app whose memory subsystem tracks reinforcement and disputation on separate decay clocks, and tests that a user-disputed entry never feeds back.

Carries 3 of 7 rubric mechanisms. Most systems here carry none or one (66%), and a dash means the mechanism was not found at this commit — not that the system needed it.

  • Tombstone
  • Trust state
  • Bi-temporal
  • Scope enforced
  • Mutation audit
  • Human review
  • Negative evals

1. Executive Summary

Project N.E.K.O. is a proactive companion application — voice, vision, avatar, Apache-2.0 — and its memory subsystem is roughly 24,000 lines across thirty modules. That is larger than most of the purpose-built memory systems in this atlas, and better reasoned than many, with design RFCs (docs/design/memory-evidence-rfc.md, memory-event-log-rfc.md) that the code cites by section number.

It is here because a companion application has a product incentive the research systems lack. If a memory layer forgets, a user notices immediately; if it re-raises something the user asked it to drop, the user is not mildly inconvenienced but hurt. That pressure has produced two mechanisms this atlas has been looking for and finding almost nowhere.

Reinforcement and disputation are separate quantities with separate decay clocks. evidence_score(entry, now) is effective_reinforcement − effective_disputation, and rein_last_signal_at and disp_last_signal_at advance independently, so a signal on one side does not reset the other's decay. Almost every system in this atlas collapses "how sure am I" into a single number that agreement and disagreement both move. Here, "long confirmed but recently disputed" is representable, and it decays like two things because it is two things.

And a disputed entry is tested not to come back. test_hard_filter_drops_negative_score asserts that an observation with evidence_score < 0 is excluded from the pool, with the reasoning in its docstring: "Stage-2 would either reinforce the dispute or, worse, cancel it." That is the re-assertion failure this atlas is organised around — named, understood, and defended with a committed test. It is the first negative retrieval assertion in the atlas that is about a corrected value rather than an access boundary.

The weaknesses are narrower than usual. The status tiers are derived from the score at read time rather than stored, so there is no field a query can filter on and no record that a specific value was rejected. And the do-not-mention directives — the closest thing here to a tombstone — expire after three days.

2. Mental Model

A memory is an entry whose standing is computed, not stored. Reading one calls evidence_score(entry, now), and derive_status maps that to one of four tiers:

Condition on evidence_score(entry, now) Derived status
score >= EVIDENCE_PROMOTED_THRESHOLD promoted
score >= EVIDENCE_CONFIRMED_THRESHOLD confirmed
score <= EVIDENCE_ARCHIVE_THRESHOLD archive_candidate
otherwise pending

The docstring is careful that this is "a DERIVED semantic label, not a storage field", and that archival additionally requires sub_zero_days >= EVIDENCE_ARCHIVE_DAYS — an entry must stay negative for a sustained period, not merely dip.

The lifecycle, with the two unusual things marked:

flowchart TB
    U["utterance"] --> EX["extraction"]
    EX --> OB["outbox"] --> DD["dedup"] --> ST[("facts / reflections / persona")]
    ST -->|"every mutation"| EL[("event_log<br/>append-only")]

    U --> RS["reinforcement signal"] --> RC["rein counter<br/><i>own decay clock</i>"]
    U --> DS["disputation signal"] --> DC["disp counter<br/><i>own decay clock</i>"]

    U --> BT["ban-topic directive<br/>stop mentioning X"]
    BT --> UD[("user_directives.json<br/>keyed on kind + term.casefold()<br/>TTL 3 days")]
    UD -->|"spliced in at cold start"| SP["system prompt"]

    style DC fill:#f4e2bd,stroke:#b8860b

The two decay clocks are the point: reinforcement and disputation are separate counters, so "long confirmed, recently disputed" is a state this system can hold and a single confidence float cannot.

Recall runs in one direction with two gates that both matter:

flowchart LR
    Q["query"] --> SF["scope filter"]
    SF --> BM["BM25 + cosine"] --> RRF["RRF fusion"] --> HF["hard filter"] --> RR["LLM rerank"]
    SF -.- N1["before ranking,<br/>never after"]
    HF -.- N2["drops score < 0<br/>and suppressed entries"]

    style HF fill:#f4e2bd,stroke:#b8860b
    style N1 fill:#f7f4ec,stroke:#cfcfcf
    style N2 fill:#f7f4ec,stroke:#cfcfcf

Scope filters before ranking, so excluded material is never ranked rather than ranked and hidden. The hard filter sits before the LLM rerank, so disputed material the model never sees cannot be talked back into relevance — and test_hard_filter_drops_negative_score asserts it.

protected=True entries — those from the character card — return float('inf') from evidence_score and are "never evicted / archived / squeezed out by budget". So the character's own identity cannot be disputed away by conversation, which is correct for this product and a pinning rule the atlas rarely sees stated so plainly.

3. Architecture

Python, Apache-2.0, with memory/ holding thirty modules and about 24,000 lines:

Concern Modules
Belief facts.py (2,474), fact_dedup.py (839), evidence.py, evidence_analytics.py, evidence_handlers.py
Recall hybrid_recall.py (803), recall.py, recent.py, timeindex.py
Correction user_directives.py (465), anti_repeat.py (617), refine.py
Durability event_log.py (601), outbox.py, cursors.py, archive_shards.py
Structure scopes.py, temporal.py, persona/, reflection/, store/
Embedding embeddings.py, embedding_worker.py, embeddings_fallback.py, _embeddings/
flowchart TB
    U[Utterance] --> EX[extraction]
    U --> UD[user_directives<br/>ban-topic, TTL 3d]
    EX --> OB[outbox] --> DD[fact_dedup] --> V[(facts / reflections / persona JSON)]
    V --> EL[(event_log — append-only)]
    Q[Query] --> SF[scope filter<br/>fail-closed to legacy_private]
    SF --> H[BM25 + cosine → RRF]
    H --> HF[hard filter<br/>score < 0, suppressed]
    HF --> RR[LLM rerank] --> OUT[recall]
    UD --> PR[system prompt at cold start]
    AR[anti_repeat BM25<br/>over recent AI output] --> GEN[generation]

Deployment and ergonomics

  • What has to run: the companion app. Storage is per-character JSON plus embeddings; there is no database server.
  • Local and offline: embeddings have a fallback path (embeddings_fallback.py), and BM25 needs no model — so recall degrades rather than breaking without an embedding service.
  • Hand-repairable: the views are JSON per character, and the event log gives a bad state a history to reconstruct from.

4. Essential Implementation Paths

Evidence. memory/evidence.pyevidence_score (152) as reinforcement minus disputation, both decayed at read time; derive_status (163); compute_evidence_snapshot producing the payload for the outgoing event.

The audit log. memory/event_log.py"per-character append-only audit + replay log". Its motivation is stated precisely: the views (facts.json / reflections.json / persona.json) "are the only record of state transitions, so there is no ordered history", which makes "crashed halfway through a view write" invisible and cross-file invariants uncheckable.

Scope, enforced before ranking. memory/hybrid_recall.py:566 carries the comment "Security boundary: scope filtering happens before any BM25/cosine/RRF" — because filtering afterwards hides results rather than excluding them. memory/scopes.py states the fail-closed rule: "Missing fields deliberately mean legacy_private; they never mean wildcard/global access."

The hard filter. MemoryRecallReranker._hard_filter drops entries with evidence_score < 0 and entries flagged suppress, before the LLM rerank.

Ban-topic directives. memory/user_directives.py — extraction across locales in parallel, dedup key (kind, term.casefold()), storage in memory/{name}/user_directives.json, TTL from USER_DIRECTIVE_TTL_SECONDS, and render_prompt_block splicing the block into the system prompt tail at startup.

Anti-repetition. memory/anti_repeat.py — a per-character rolling BM25 corpus over recent AI output, because "the LLM tends to circle back to the same topic … Simple SequenceMatcher similarity only catches exact repeats and is useless against rephrased but still on the same topic." The background corpus is count-capped and "never time-filtered, so IDF context survives idle periods intact".

Tests. ~7,936 across the repository, including tests/unit/test_memory_recall.py, test_group_memory_scopes.py, and several *_memory_policy_contract.py suites.

5. Memory Data Model

The evidence fields are the model: reinforcement and disputation counters with rein_last_signal_at and disp_last_signal_at, a protected flag, a scope, a source, and a suppress flag.

Scope is a MemorySubject supporting group and participant memory, with a SCOPED_PERSONA_PREFIX of @subject/ and a documented legacy path. The fail-closed default — absent scope means legacy_private, never global — is the same discipline OpenHuman applies to its taint column, and the right default for a system that gained group chat after the fact.

No stored status field, which is why trust_state is withheld. The four tiers are computed per read, so nothing can query "all pending facts" without recomputing, and no history of status transitions exists outside the event log.

No rejected-value record that survives archival. Disputation pushes an entry out of recall and eventually into an archive shard, but nothing keyed on the value prevents the same claim being extracted from a later conversation and starting fresh at zero.

6. Retrieval Mechanics

The most complete retrieval stack in the companion category and competitive with the best here: scope filter → BM25 + cosine → RRF → hard filter → LLM rerank, with a budget and an embedding fallback.

Two details are worth stealing regardless of domain. Scope before ranking is a security property rather than a performance one, and the comment says so. The hard filter sits between fusion and the LLM rerank, so disputed material never reaches the model that would otherwise weigh it — the difference between "the model decided not to use it" and "the model never saw it".

anti_repeat is a second, unusual mechanism: a negative filter over the assistant's own recent output, to stop a proactive companion raising the same subject repeatedly. Nothing else in this atlas models self-repetition as a memory problem.

7. Write Mechanics

Extraction runs into an outbox so a background task killed mid-flight can be re-run, then through fact_dedup before landing in the per-character views. Reflection and refinement are separate background passes.

The directive path is the interesting write. dispatch_user_utterance fans out to a registered sink; extraction runs all locales in parallel because mixed Chinese and English speech is common; a hit is trimmed and stored under (kind, term.casefold()), with repeated hits refreshing the expiry and incrementing hit_count.

Its false-positive policy is stated explicitly, which is rare enough to quote:

"The regex templates are lenient. Cost of a false kill = the user says an equivalent sentence once more; cost of a miss = the user gets offended again — so we lean toward over-killing."

That is an asymmetric error-cost analysis written into the module implementing the suppression. No other system in this atlas states the trade it is making on a suppression mechanism.

The scope discipline is equally careful. The module documents what it deliberately does not extract: object-less "shut up" or "change the subject" (no concrete topic to carry forward, and pushing the intent into the next round would backfire), and plain preferences like "I don't like watermelon" (that belongs to the fact pipeline, not the ban list).

Operational cost

  • The hot path is not blocked: extraction goes to an outbox and workers drain it.
  • Decay is computed at read time rather than as a state transition, so no sweep rewrites scores — a good trade that removes a whole class of background job.
  • Embeddings have a worker and a fallback, so a slow embedding service degrades recall rather than stalling writes.
  • On the read path, the LLM rerank has a budget and the directive prompt block is bounded by USER_DIRECTIVE_MAX_ACTIVE.

8. Agent Integration

Memory is an internal subsystem, not an exposed API: no MCP surface, no memory tool the model calls. Recall is assembled and injected; directives are spliced into the system prompt at cold start.

That is right for a product where the user never thinks about memory, and it means the mechanisms here are not reusable as a library — they are reusable as designs.

9. Reliability, Safety, and Trust

The dispute channel is the contribution. Separating reinforcement from disputation, giving each its own decay clock, then hard-filtering negative entries before the rerank is a more careful treatment of disagreement than any dedicated memory system in this atlas manages. Most systems here have one confidence number that agreement and disagreement both push on, which cannot express "recently disputed but long confirmed" — the exact state a companion must handle gently.

trust_state is withheld because the four tiers are derived per read rather than stored, and the definition asks for a field. The near-miss is substantial and arguably the definition's problem rather than the system's: a label computed deterministically from two independently-decaying counters carries more information than a stored enum and cannot go stale. What it cannot do is be queried or filtered without recomputation, and no transition history exists outside the event log.

audit_log is earned on event_log.py — append-only, per character, motivated by exactly the failure the atlas cares about, and backed by a design RFC.

negative_eval is earned, and for the reason the atlas has been waiting for. The prior holders that came from access-control work — MIRIX, Aukora, EverOS — all assert a boundary. test_hard_filter_drops_negative_score asserts that a value the user disputed does not feed back into the pipeline. That is correction, not scope, and it is the first of its kind in this corpus.

The ban-topic list is the closest thing here to a tombstone and does not earn the mark. It is durable, keyed on the term rather than on a row, and survives the restart that would otherwise wipe the context — more than most manage. But it works by asking the model not to raise the topic, so a sufficiently distracted model still can, and it expires after three days. A user who says "please stop bringing up my ex" is protected until Thursday.

Privacy: memories are per-character JSON on the user's machine, and the protected flag prevents character-card identity being disputed away. No secret filtering on the write path was found.

10. Tests, Evals, and Benchmarks

About 7,936 test functions repository-wide — the largest suite of any system in this atlas — with memory covered by test_memory_recall.py (phase by phase over the recall pipeline), test_group_memory_scopes.py, a runtime memory soak test, and several *_memory_policy_contract.py files asserting that a feature's memory behaviour matches a written policy.

The recall tests are structured the way this atlas keeps asking for: each phase in isolation, with negative assertions at the phase boundary rather than end to end. test_hard_filter_drops_negative_score and test_hard_filter_drops_suppressed are both single-phase and both assert absence.

No public benchmark is run, and none would be meaningful — this product's evaluation is whether users keep talking to it.

What I would want: a test that a ban-topic directive still suppresses after the TTL boundary, or an explicit decision that it should not; and a test that a disputed fact re-extracted from a later conversation does not silently reset to zero.

11. For Your Own Build

Steal

  • Track agreement and disagreement as separate quantities with separate decay clocks. One confidence float cannot represent "long confirmed, recently disputed", which is the state that most needs careful handling. Two counters and two timestamps can, and score = rein − disp collapses them only when you need a number.
  • Compute status at read time instead of storing it. No sweep, no stale labels, no migration when a threshold changes.
  • Filter scope before ranking, and write the reason in the code. Filtering after ranking hides results instead of excluding them, and the comment is what stops someone reordering it for performance.
  • Put the hard filter before the LLM rerank. Disputed material the model never sees cannot be talked back into relevance.
  • Keep a durable do-not-mention list keyed on the term. The insight is in the motivation: the current turn is fine because the model can see the user's words — the failure is the next cold start, after compression has wiped them.
  • State your false-positive policy where the suppression lives. One sentence tells every future maintainer which way to tune.
  • Model self-repetition as a memory problem. A BM25 corpus over your own recent output catches "rephrased but still the same topic", which string similarity never will.
  • Take the disputation mechanism into serious systems, not just companions. This is the transfer worth stating plainly, because the packaging invites dismissal. A companion app builds this because raising something the user asked it to drop is an emotional injury and the user leaves. The identical architecture is what stops a customer-service agent volunteering a declined mortgage application, a health assistant re-raising a terminated pregnancy, or a CRM summary reminding a rep to ask after a client's late spouse. Every one of those is a retrieval failure over a technically accurate memory, which a confidence score cannot express and a relevance ranker will happily surface forever. The distinction the atlas has been asking for — a durable record that a specific value was rejected, separate from how confident anyone is in it — gets built first where the cost of getting it wrong is felt immediately rather than measured quarterly.

Avoid

  • A three-day TTL on a suppression the user asked for. Reinforcement decay makes sense for facts; "never mention this again" is not a fact and does not weaken with time. If the list must be bounded, bound it by size and let the user see it.
  • Deriving status without keeping transitions. Read-time computation is the right call, and it means you cannot answer "when did this become disputed?" unless the event log carries it — so make sure it does.

Fit

Read this if you are building anything where a memory mistake is felt rather than merely wrong — a companion, a therapy-adjacent tool, a long-running personal assistant. The evidence model and the directive list come from that pressure and are the two best answers to it in this atlas.

It is not a library. Memory is wired into a companion runtime with voice, vision and an avatar, and there is no API boundary to lift it out through. Take the designs, not the code.

And the broader point for anyone surveying this field: this subsystem is larger and more carefully reasoned than most of the purpose-built memory frameworks here, and it was found in a companion app. Product pressure from users who notice produced a dispute channel, an append-only audit log and a tested correction filter — three things the research systems mostly discuss.

12. Open Questions

  • Why three days for USER_DIRECTIVE_TTL_SECONDS? No rationale appears in the module, and the choice is the difference between a real suppression mechanism and a temporary one.
  • What happens when a disputed fact is re-extracted? Whether fact_dedup matches it back to the archived entry and restores its disputation, or creates a fresh entry at zero, was not traced — and it decides whether correction survives.
  • Does the event log let status transitions be reconstructed? It records mutations; whether an evidence snapshot rides on every one determines if "when did this become disputed" is answerable.
  • How is a disputation signal produced? The scoring is clear; the classifier deciding that a user utterance disputes a specific entry was not read.
  • Do the *_memory_policy_contract tests assert policies from the design RFCs, and is anything keeping the two in sync?

Appendix: File Index

Evidence and belief

  • memory/evidence.pyevidence_score (152), derive_status (163), compute_evidence_snapshot
  • memory/facts.py, memory/fact_dedup.py, memory/evidence_handlers.py, memory/evidence_analytics.py

Correction

  • memory/user_directives.pyUserDirectivesManager, TTL, prompt block
  • memory/anti_repeat.py — BM25 over recent AI output
  • memory/refine.py, memory/reflection/

Recall

  • memory/hybrid_recall.py — scope boundary comment (566), RRF fusion
  • memory/recall.py, memory/recent.py, memory/timeindex.py

Durability and scope

  • memory/event_log.py — append-only audit and replay
  • memory/outbox.py, memory/cursors.py, memory/archive_shards.py
  • memory/scopes.pyMemorySubject, LEGACY_PRIVATE_SCOPE

Design documents

  • docs/design/memory-evidence-rfc.md, docs/design/memory-event-log-rfc.md

Tests

  • tests/unit/test_memory_recall.pytest_hard_filter_drops_negative_score, test_hard_filter_drops_suppressed
  • tests/unit/test_group_memory_scopes.py, tests/unit/test_runtime_memory_soak.py